Bedroom Blunders & Advice You Didn't Know You Needed

Life throws curveballs—especially in the bedroom. In this week’s episode of Not Safe For Brunch, we took on a game of “What Would You Do?” featuring listener-submitted sex and relationship dilemmas. From sexting disasters to mismatched libidos and awkward toy talk, we’re dishing out real-talk advice and unapologetic takes.

Knocked Out in the Camper & Glue as Lube?!

We started with some wild sex mishap confessions that had us cackling—one involving a camper ceiling and another where patch glue was mistaken for lube (yes, really). These moments are a hilarious reminder that sex can be messy—and that’s totally normal.

“My Partner Has a Kink I Don’t Understand...”

When a partner shares a kink you’re unfamiliar with, it can feel overwhelming. We say: take a breath. Ask questions without judgment, explore entry-level info together, and understand that sometimes kinks have deeper roots. Curiosity beats criticism—always.

“I Sexted My Boss By Accident…”

Yikes. Our advice? Acknowledge it, don’t bury it. A simple, “Oops, that wasn’t meant for you—so sorry!” goes a long way in easing the awkwardness and reclaiming your dignity.

Mismatched Libidos and Relationship Strain

Sexual desire mismatches are more common than most couples realize. The key is identifying the root cause. Is it physical? Emotional? Stress-related? We talk about open, judgment-free communication, and how understanding each other’s “why” can bring you closer (and yes, we said it: communication again).

“I Caught My Partner Browsing a Dating App…”

This one hit close to home. Whether it’s “just browsing” or something more, the intention behind the action matters. If monogamy was the agreed standard, this deserves a serious conversation—and possibly a red flag check.

“Our Sexting Feels Stale”

For long-distance lovers struggling to keep the spice alive, we shared tips like Bluetooth toys, naughty voice memos, or even creating a sexy “to-do” list for the next visit. Spice doesn’t always mean explicit—it means intentional, playful, and creative.

Erectile Challenges—Now What?

If your partner can’t get or keep an erection, the first step is talking (yep, again) and encouraging a visit to the doctor. It could be physical, emotional, or medication-related. Either way, it’s nothing to feel ashamed about—and there are plenty of ways to stay connected in the meantime.

Introducing Toys Into the Bedroom

Thinking of adding toys to the mix? Our #1 tip: bring it up outside the bedroom. Scroll a site together, play a little “intrigued or afraid?” game, and let the conversation flow. Many couples are more open than you think—you just need to break the ice.

“We Live in My In-Law’s Basement… Sex is a Secret Mission”

Living with family and trying to stay intimate? We get it. Little signals (like wearing “those” pants), quick car rides, and playful messages can help keep the romance alive. Don’t underestimate the power of subtle touches and private games.

If these scenarios got you thinking “OMG SAME,” you’re not alone. Got a juicy sex or relationship dilemma of your own? Email us at notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com or slide into our DMs.

Until next time, keep it cheeky, curious, and completely unapologetic.

 

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